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Dance on.

Sometimes it takes a widely publicized protest recreating a dance by a “German dancer who’s pretty popular, they tell me” to remind me that most people have no idea what I’m talking or writing about, most of the time. It’s quite possible more people read my recent story on Joann Fabrics stores closing than have ever read a dance review I wrote. That used to make me mad. Now, it just is. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. This thing we call dance is niche and sometimes obtuse.

And beautiful.

The Daily Show certainly isn’t the first to poke fun at Pina Bausch’s Nelken Line performed in Washington D.C. in objection to President Trump’s apparent takeover of the board and programming at the Kennedy Center. But every criticism was followed by a “You know what? Go on with your bad selves,” or some variation thereof.

Too bad the Washington Post laid off their full time dance critic, one of two left in the country. The paper didn’t even cover the protest.

As Jeff Bezos thankfully pours money into maintaining an important totem of the fourth estate, he simultaneously degrades its integrity by refusing to keep his hands out of the editorial cookie jar. At this point, The Daily Show might be a bigger and more influential platform.

So go on with your bad selves, dancers.

A resolution.

My New Year’s resolution is to change my relationship with social media. I read and listen to a lot of commentary on how social media platforms have affected our social skills, mental health, personal relationships and world views. I recently put “parental controls” on my phone to help me step away gradually.

Journalists have to be on social media. I will still be creeping around looking for events, news tips and other tidbits that are hard if not impossible to find anywhere else. But I want to make my time on social media intentional. I’m going to stop posting and endlessly scrolling.

Will it really impact clicks if I’m not posting hot-takes and links to the things I write on my personal account? Maybe, but not enough to justify the personal cost of being there. Are journalists unintentionally contributing to our industry’s financial demise by feeling like they have to post? Also maybe.

I’m not getting a Substack. I’m not joining Blue Sky. This is not about taking a moral high ground or “taking down” social media; it’s about me. But I will say this: If we all collectively decided this isn’t fun or worth it any more and walked away, these sites would be gone tomorrow.

I updated the <<<<<< sidebar of this website with links to publications I regularly write for. Follow them on their social media platforms!!

As for staying in touch, I’ve had the same email address and phone number for like two decades.

A Glee binge was just what I needed.

I spent an unreasonable amount of time last weekend sobbing on the couch.

I watched Glee as a casual fan, catching it here and there and basically losing interest when it got super weird in Season 5.

But the news of Naya Rivera’s death last week sent me on a downward spiral bingeing every episode of Santana Lopez’s coming out story. I was already in my thirties at the time, but I recognized how significant Santana’s storyline was for people half my age—my coming out timeline was peppered with pioneering roles by Ellen DeGeneres, Alyson Hannigan and Karyn Dwyer.

Lesbian Latina characters did not exist on prime-time, network television until Naya Rivera played one. It was 2010. Glee always leaned hard into humor—and Santana’s quips are some of the best—but Rivera was honest and nuanced with a role originally intended to be nothing more than the mean, slutty cheerleader in the back of the choir room. She seemed to know how big of a deal it was to get it right. She knew how much it mattered.

Honestly, I hadn’t thought about Glee or Santana Lopez or Naya Rivera since the show ended in 2015. I didn’t think about it all that much when it was on the air. But for some reason, I felt compelled to cry on the couch for hours, fast-forwarding to get to the sad parts, grieving three actors who lives ended tragically and at a young age. If I had to fashion a guess why, I think watching fictional teenagers with their whole lives ahead of them understand themselves and the world through Adele mash-ups and Fleetwood Mac hits somehow gave me a concrete (if not super productive) way to process all the trauma in the world right now.

Mourning Naya Rivera felt uncomplicated and allowed me to shut out the world for a little while. Somewhere in America, there’s a teenage girl sitting in her room wondering if she’s gay. She’s just as consumed by it and confused as I was a couple decades ago. I had the luxury of coming out in a world that wasn’t on Facebook. I don’t have to grapple with my identity while simultaneously grieving the loss of 140,000 Americans, and counting, as unidentified militia provoke riots and the President bumbles on about Goya beans and confederate statues.

What we’re going through would be ridiculous if it wasn’t so heartbreaking.

Naya helped me. Maybe she helps you, too.

https://youtu.be/VHDtJmmPcCM

 

In uncertain times, I turn to food preservation—and a pandemic soup recipe you might like

I found this post in my draft folder, dated September, 2017. Just the headline, “In uncertain times, I turn to food preservation,” with no text. I was probably setting up some post about a thing I’d canned.

Apparently I thought 2017 was “uncertain times.”

That’s cute.

It’s true, though, that I look to my kitchen as a coping mechanism. After nine weeks of sheltering in place—and with the stress of lost employment and the trauma of a global pandemic—I’ve spent more time there than ever. I feel really lucky that I like to cook; undoubtedly, preparing three meals a day is placing more stress on many families, not less.

One of the things that’s given me the most joy during this time is finding ways to produce less waste. I’ve dehydrated orange peels to supplement a tin of black tea; saved bones and vegetable scraps for gallons of chicken broth, turkey broth, ham broth and beef broth; frozen and canned chilis, soups and salsas and restarted a compost regimen which had fallen by the wayside.

Yesterday I made cream of broccoli and potato soup and thought I’d post it as a flexible base to make “cream of whatever you’ve got” soup. Please enjoy.

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I made a recipe from the back of a box of powdered milk and it wasn’t terrible

I’m moving.

It’s not like I’ve never moved before; I’ve probably done it more than the average Midwesterner. But having lived in the same city for 18.5 years, and having spent all but one of those years in the same neighborhood, it’s a bit daunting to imagine being in a new place. (And in case you’re wondering, I’m still going to be in Chicago half time, for now.)

It’s also an opportunity.

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IMBIBE: Aquafaba sours have all the frothy fun, without the salmonella

There are a few things you should know about whiskey sours:

First, sweet and sour mix is gross. It’s not very hard to create a sour cocktail from scratch and give up the big bottle of electric green stuff. All you really need is a lemon and some sugar, or if you don’t want to make a simple syrup yourself, you can buy it pre-made at the grocery store or the liquor store.

Second, a Boston sour is a whiskey sour with an egg white, which makes for a delicious froth that rises to the top of this digestif.

OK, so the chances of salmonella from a frothy raw egg white in your drink are lower than the chances of a hangover from having one too many of these, but raw ingredients can admittedly be a turnoff.

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Canapolooza 2016

One might call it a Labor Day tradition: a gathering of many hands, a pitcher of sangria, and an unreasonably large quantity of tomatoes in a Rogers Park kitchen for the annual Canapolooza. In case you missed it, this is what happened:

https://youtu.be/4GbJRQXPE34

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